feat(ruler): add per-tenant configuration to disable WAL replay

[trevorwhitney]

What this PR does / why we need it:

This change adds the ability to disable WAL replay for specific tenants through ruler_enable_wal_replay tenant override. Disabling WAL replay helps prevent OOM crashes for tenants with large WALs, as it skips loading all series into memory during startup. We are currently only replaying the WAL so we can reuse the series ID, we are not actually replaying any metrics into the remote write target. Having the WAL is still beneficial to handle periods when the remote write server cannot be reached, but the benefit we're gaining from replaying the WAL is minimal considering it frequently causes the rulers to OOMs.

• Added ruler_enable_wal_replay flag to Limits and Overrides
• Modified WAL storage to accept enableReplay parameter
• Updated ruler registry to use tenant-specific setting when creating instances
• Added tests to verify WAL replay can be disabled

Checklist

• Reviewed the CONTRIBUTING.md guide (required)
• Documentation added
• Tests updated
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