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What Happened to You?

Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing

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What Happened to You?

By: Oprah Winfrey, Bruce Perry
Narrated by: Bruce Perry, Oprah Winfrey
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Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain development and trauma expert, Dr Bruce Perry, discuss the impact of trauma and adverse experiences – and how healing must begin with a shift to asking 'What happened to you?' rather than 'What’s wrong with you?'.

Through wide-ranging and often deeply personal conversation, Oprah Winfrey and Dr Perry explore how what happens to us in early childhood – both good and bad - influences the people we become.

A simple change in perspective can open up a new and hopeful understanding about why we do the things we do, why we are the way we are – and provide a road map for repairing relationships, overcoming what seems insurmountable, and ultimately living better and more fulfilling lives.

Many of us experience adversity and trauma during childhood that has lasting impact on our physical and emotional health. And as we’re beginning to understand, we are more sensitive to developmental trauma as children than we are as adults. ‘What happened to us’ in childhood is a powerful predictor of our risk for physical and mental health problems down the road, and offers scientific insights into the patterns of behaviours so many struggle to understand.

A survivor of multiple childhood challenges herself, Oprah Winfrey shares portions of her own harrowing experiences because she understands the vulnerability that comes from facing trauma at a young age.

Throughout her career, Oprah has teamed up with Dr Bruce Perry, one of the world’s leading experts on childhood trauma. He has treated thousands of children, youth, and adults and has been called on for decades to support individuals and communities following high-profile traumatic events.

Now, Oprah joins with Dr Perry to marry the power of storytelling with the science and clinical experience to better understand and overcome the effects of trauma.

Grounded in the latest brain science and brought to life through compelling narratives, this book shines a light on a much-needed path to recovery – showing us our incredible capacity to transform after adversity.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2021 Oprah Winfrey and Dr Bruce Perry (P)2021 Macmillan Audio
Career Success Developmental Psychology Mental Health Motivation & Self-Improvement Personal Development Personal Success Post-Traumatic Stress Disorders Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Inspiring Thought-Provoking

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An incredible dialogue that bares the fundamental causes of trauma, and rightly turns the question of shame on it’s head and back to the environment. There is so much more we need to learn and this book is the perfect guide to reframing how we can act - through research, experience and compassion - in tomorrow's world. An essential read (Dr Camilla Pang, biochemist and author of Explaining Humans)
Revealing, intimate, and educational, it’s a testament to the authors’ wish for readers to come to grips with, and let go of, the past – and to move forward into 'post-traumatic wisdom.' (Leigh Haber, O Magazine)

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Moving, riveting, filled with startling insights. Buy it. Listen to it. This audio book will save many damaged lives. Wish I could give 20 stars.

Brilliant.

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I'm definitely going to read this over and over again. Such a beautiful way to convey such important messages, through story and understanding.
I have begun applying some techniques to my horse training to build trust and get to the cortex. Thank you!

Fav new book!!

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So many need to read this book. The depth of understanding childhood trauma, the mind and healing is a gift to all. The real life examples are heart Breaking but insightful. Understanding how we respond due to our childhood trauma is empowering. Thank you for this gift.

Amazing, Powerful, Deep

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The work of Bruce Perry is remarkable

This is a remarkable book and Oprah is a fabulous partner to Dr Perry in this book

I was sad when it ended

Essential reading

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I expierenced a lot of light bulb moments listening to Oprah and Dr Perry.
Chapter 7 in particular.
I am going to listen to this audiobook often when I am feeling overwhelmed with my trauma recovery

Audiobook a better option than the actual book.

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Life changing. I now am able to understand people I encounter better now. This book is really a gem, I will be using it for the rest of my life to center myself.

Remarkable book!

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This is both a mirror and a map to healing our hearts! Read it again and again!

This should be a set work for every human!

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Wow! What an incredible guide and tool for what healing can do for you! Thank you Oprah and Dr Perry for your vulnerability and authenticity! The world needs more of you 🙏🏽

Thank you 🙏🏽

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This book had me connecting dots throughout. I get it now! I absolutely get it

What happened to you can be your superpower

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This book will benefit your every relationship, and . It will also make you wish you could go back and tuck a young Oprah into bed :) I have even more respect for her and Dr Perry than ever. The more people who learn understand trauma the better for society.

An essential read for anyone

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