How to Move From Individual Contributor to Leader

When I started leading a high-powered recruiting team, I had the traits of the TYRANT leaders I now call out. Here's why: Despite my degrees, certificates, and ongoing professional development, nothing prepared me to transition into leading. I still had an individual contributor (IC) mindset, which unintentionally led me to compete with my very capable team. At the time, I engaged in behaviors like: Taking over projects instead of developing my team. Working long hours, thinking it showed commitment. Making unilateral decisions vs collaborating. Giving orders instead of providing clarity and context. Hoarding information instead of communicating transparently. Prioritizing my metrics over team goals. A month in, my boss at the time sat down with me and told me to own my transition and to stop taking over work when someone asked for help. (she's one of the best Leader's I've ever had) To transform my mindset, I sought out a few internal sponsors and observed how they managed their teams. I also asked my team for feedback on where I could do better. Once I made the changes: mindset and action, I began demonstrating new leadership behaviors: Coaching my team and developing their problem-solving skills. ↳Created an authorization matrix to empower them to make decisions. Promoting work-life balance through prioritization and delegation. ↳I stopped working on vacation to set a better example. Making collaborative decisions to increase buy-in. ↳They worked on the reqs, so I asked for their ideas and where I could implement them. Painting a vision and equipping the team to get there themselves. ↳I translated the organization's vision down to how it affected our team goals. Openly communicating to build trust and transparency. ↳I promoted democratic decision-making and explained when it needed to be autocratic. Aligning on and championing team goals over my individual metrics. ↳I held weekly reviews where I celebrated their success because it was OUR success. Here's what I want you to take from this: 1. Develop your team's skills rather than trying to be the expert. 2. Delegate decisions to increase buy-in and leverage diverse perspectives. 3. Openly share information rather than hoarding knowledge and insight. 4. Recognize and elevate your team's contributions rather than taking individual credit. #aLITTLEadvice #leadership

The skills that make someone an exceptional individual contributor often become limitations in senior leadership. Consider Sarah (composite of many real examples): - Crushes every metric - Works longest hours - Knows every answer - Solves every problem personally - Team depends on her for everything Passed over for VP multiple times. Here's the pattern I've observed: High Performers Often: - Execute personally - Protect their expertise - Measure effort - Create dependency - Focus on tasks High Leaders Typically: - Execute through others - Share knowledge freely - Measure outcomes - Create capability - Focus on people The coaching insight we shared that changed everything for Sarah's trajectory: "What if you stopped being the best player and started being the coach?" Her shift over 6 months: - Delegated strategically - Developed team capabilities - Led cross-functional initiatives - Focused on multiplying impact The result: Finally promoted to VP. This is much easier said, than done. While the specific actions are easy. Internal beliefs, patterns, habits, routine and skills are much harder to change. A step-by-step approach with proactive coaching every step of the way, Made this change possible. The uncomfortable truth I share with clients: If you're the hardest worker on your team, you might not be ready for executive leadership. Leaders create capacity. They don't just consume it. What's your experience with this transition? #Leadership #ExecutiveDevelopment #ManagementInsights #CareerGrowth

"Why can’t I get to the next level? Why can’t I get a job leading the team?" That’s what someone asked me recently. They were frustrated. Stuck. They had all the right skills. The experience. The results. But the promotions weren’t coming. So I asked, “What story are you telling?” Turns out, their resume, cover letter, and interview approach all screamed star player—stats, achievements, MVP moments. But leadership roles don’t go to star players. They go to coaches. There’s a huge difference between "Look what I did!" and "Look what I helped others do." When you’re gunning for leadership, your story needs to shift—from being the engine to being the driver of the team. From solo success to shared victories. From taking the shot to setting others up to score. People don’t hire you for a leadership role just because you’re good at your job. They hire you for a leadership role when they see you can bring out the best in others. Want to move up? Start telling the story of the coach, not just the player. #Leadership #CareerGrowth #CoachingMindset #Storytelling #PromotionReady PerformancePoint LLC