I had a paper accepted to an A* ML a year ago. It was for a novel dataset that we made. Before the camera-ready deadline, I ended up finding that a significant number of ground truth labels ended up being wrong (roughly 25-30%). When I told my second author of the paper, who was technically my mentor, he told me to leave it if I couldn't find enough time to fix it myself, since he didn't want to re-involve the other individuals. There were mistakes on my end, which I fixed before the camera-ready, but I didn't submit it since there were also other annotations which may have needed a second look, but I wasn't qualified to comment on those. At the time, he told me that all of our experiments are reproducible with our annotations and are open-source, so it's fine to keep updating the dataset + arXiv over time, and we technically did verify the dataset once before running.
For a while, I realized that this was misconduct since we submitted a paper that we knew had mistakes in it, but I didn't want to go against him since he was potentially going to be a reference letter writer for me. It took me a year to find qualified people who could help cross-check the annotations, and I contacted all of the people who used our faulty dataset and made public updates on the mistakes that we found + fixed. The study/conclusions of our paper ended up being the same, but we had to change a large number of annotations.
I still feel really guilty about this and can't stop thinking about it. It was technically my fault for not fixing it since he told me to fix it later, but I didn't have enough time to do it myself, + there were other parts I couldn't do myself. I want to update the proceedings paper, but that's probably far too late at this point.