Add a configuration to determine whether to enable the point-to-point network interface

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What is the purpose of the change?

Related #15031

Checklist

• Make sure there is a GitHub_issue field for the change.
• Write a pull request description that is detailed enough to understand what the pull request does, how, and why.
• Write necessary unit-test to verify your logic correction. If the new feature or significant change is committed, please remember to add sample in dubbo samples project.
• Make sure gitHub actions can pass. Why the workflow is failing and how to fix it?

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 0% with 3 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 60.74%. Comparing base (82274d9) to head (ba832d8).
Report is 157 commits behind head on 3.3.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...n/java/org/apache/dubbo/common/utils/NetUtils.java	0.00%	2 Missing and 1 partial ��️

Additional details and impacted files

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  Coverage     60.74%   60.74%           
+ Complexity    10876    10865   -11     
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  Files          1882     1882           
  Lines         86004    86007    +3     
  Branches      12884    12886    +2     
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+ Hits          52244    52249    +5     
  Misses        28307    28307           
+ Partials       5453     5451    -2     

Flag	Coverage Δ
integration-tests	32.99% <0.00%> (-0.03%)	⬇️
samples-tests	29.20% <0.00%> (-0.01%)	⬇️
unit-tests	58.90% <0.00%> (-0.01%)	⬇️

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