Replace rqlite with modernc.org/sqlite

[s3rj1k]

Description

Fixes:

• Check if possible to sunset cgo sqlite3 dependency #3051

Type of change

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• Documentation update

How Has This Been Tested?

• Manual test
• Auto test added

Checklist

• My code follows the style guidelines of this project
• My commit messages are signed-off
• I have performed a self-review of my code
• I have commented my code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas
• I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
• My changes generate no new warnings
• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
• New and existing unit tests pass locally with my changes
• Any dependent changes have been merged and published in downstream modules
• I have checked my code and corrected any misspellings

[twz123]

Thanks for working on this. Has been in the backlog since forever ^^

[twz123]

@s3rj1k #6568 has been merged. Would you be able to rebase this and address the few nits?

[s3rj1k]

@s3rj1k #6568 has been merged. Would you be able to rebase this and address the few nits?

Done, except that VACUUM change, lets test that a bit later