fs: skip watching ignored paths in recursive watcher

Instead of just filtering events, skip watching ignored paths entirely
to avoid kernel resource pressure from unnecessary file watchers.
This is especially important for large directories like node_modules.

lib/internal/fs/recursive_watch.js

@@ -96,14 +96,6 @@ class FSWatcher extends EventEmitter {
     this.emit('close');
   }
 
-  #emitChange(eventType, filename) {
-    // Filter events if ignore matcher is set and filename is available
-    if (filename != null && this.#ignoreMatcher?.(filename)) {
-      return;
-    }
-    this.emit('change', eventType, filename);
-  }
-
   #unwatchFiles(file) {
     this.#symbolicFiles.delete(file);
 
@@ -130,9 +122,15 @@ class FSWatcher extends EventEmitter {
         }
 
         const f = pathJoin(folder, file.name);
+        const relativePath = pathRelative(this.#rootPath, f);
+
+        // Skip watching ignored paths entirely to avoid kernel resource pressure
+        if (this.#ignoreMatcher?.(relativePath)) {
+          continue;
+        }
 
         if (!this.#files.has(f)) {
-          this.#emitChange('rename', pathRelative(this.#rootPath, f));
+          this.emit('change', 'rename', relativePath);
 
           if (file.isSymbolicLink()) {
             this.#symbolicFiles.add(f);
@@ -190,20 +188,20 @@ class FSWatcher extends EventEmitter {
         this.#files.delete(file);
         this.#watchers.delete(file);
         watcher.close();
-        this.#emitChange('rename', pathRelative(this.#rootPath, file));
+        this.emit('change', 'rename', pathRelative(this.#rootPath, file));
         this.#unwatchFiles(file);
       } else if (file === this.#rootPath && this.#watchingFile) {
         // This case will only be triggered when watching a file with fs.watch
-        this.#emitChange('change', pathBasename(file));
+        this.emit('change', 'change', pathBasename(file));
       } else if (this.#symbolicFiles.has(file)) {
         // Stats from watchFile does not return correct value for currentStats.isSymbolicLink()
         // Since it is only valid when using fs.lstat(). Therefore, check the existing symbolic files.
-        this.#emitChange('rename', pathRelative(this.#rootPath, file));
+        this.emit('change', 'rename', pathRelative(this.#rootPath, file));
       } else if (currentStats.isDirectory()) {
         this.#watchFolder(file);
       } else {
         // Watching a directory will trigger a change event for child files)
-        this.#emitChange('change', pathRelative(this.#rootPath, file));
+        this.emit('change', 'change', pathRelative(this.#rootPath, file));
       }
     });
     this.#watchers.set(file, watcher);

test/parallel/test-fs-watch-ignore-recursive.js

@@ -130,8 +130,8 @@ tmpdir.refresh();
 
   const watcher = fs.watch(testDirectory, {
     recursive: true,
-    // Use array to match both the directory itself and files inside it
-    // On macOS, FSEvents may report events for the directory when files change inside it
+    // On Linux, matching the directory skips watching it entirely.
+    // On macOS, the native watcher still needs to filter file events inside.
     ignore: ['**/node_modules/**', '**/node_modules'],
   });